Reason #50: Shelter from the Storm
Tuesday, December 30th, 2008There is no doubting the economic storm that is blowing at hurricane force around the world these days. It’s a real mess out there! Being in Costa Rica does not make one immune either, especially when that someone is in the travel business. I don’t think I am speaking alone in saying that business lately has been just miserable. However, being in Costa Rica does make weathering the storm a bit more tolerable. For one thing here we are not inundated by bad economic news 24/7. It is not the major topic of every news program, or major newspaper headline. Nor is it the topic of every conversation with the neighbor or stranger in the street. The U.S. over the last few decades has become almost a completely media driven country. Yes I know that it is the media’s job to keep the people informed. But it is not their job to keep them brainwashed and hypnotized. The truth is that the news media exerts far too much influence on what actually happens in the U.S. and that goes beyond mere reporting. The media may not instigate every newsworthy occurrence, but they certainly perpetuate it. That goes with presidential elections and the economy and almost every other facet of life. How can one not seriously say that the media played the major role in the election of Barack Obama (please note that I am not saying his election was a bad thing, just pointing out the fact that the media elected him). These days one can perpetrate a horrible act of violence on one’s own loved ones and immediately gain instant notoriety in the media (consider the case of the mother of that poor child, Caylee Anthony). Do you not seriously think that a deranged psychopath is not encouraged by the fact that he (or she) can gain instant fame through unspeakable violence. And no where is the media influence felt more than in the economy. The media has blabbered on and on about how bad the economy is until they have now triggered national depression. No one even wants to get out of bed and get out there to make things better, because the media makes us all feel that the effort would be futile…..better to stay in bed and watch TV! It is a little maddening (and that is coming from a TV news addict). Even though here in Costa Rica the U.S. cable media outlets such as CNN and Fox are available, one can easily escape by switching to local channel 7 where one can learn how to make superb tamales. Yes the economic storm is brewing out there and no one is immune. The U.S. economy is the proverbial 800 pound gorilla and right now she is throwing an “economic fit” with worldwide reverberations. At least in Costa Rica the grumblings of our own Arenal Volcano drown out her rants. In the poetic word’s of Bob Dylan…..
Well, I’m livin’ in a foreign country but I’m bound to cross the line.
Beauty walks a razor’s edge, someday I’ll make it mine.
If I could only turn back the clock to when God and her were born.
“Come in,” she said, “I’ll give you shelter from the storm.”
The storm will pass, it always does. But sometimes just being far enough away to be on the outside looking in can be a reason to love Costa Rica. Thanks Costa Rica for providing a little shelter from the storm.



Costa Rican society is decidedly polite compared to that of the U.S. It might be the biggest area of culture shock one will experience after being here for a long time and then returning to the U.S. At least, that has been my experience. Now there are exceptions to every rule. Those apply here on the streets, avenues and highways. Just put the most polite, well refined Tico behind the steering wheel of an automobile, and it is like pouring water on a “gremlin” (you remember those lovable little creatures from that early Spielberg kid-flick?). Yea, they become little demons hell-bent on destruction. But outside of that environment, politeness rules. I am still trying to adapt, because sometimes I just don’t feel like being polite. Those times are usually when I am too wrapped up in what is going on in my life at the moment (or in my head) to take the time to try to brighten someone’s day with a simple, disculpe, por favor, or gracias. Here folks are just polite, even when they may not be having the best day. It is not as if they are “faking it.” The politeness comes natural. In the culture of the U.S., you can readily tell when someone is faking it, can’t you? You know, the so-called “courtesy laugh” at that joke you blew, or the “courtesy smile” when lurking just behind it is seething cynicism. I am one of those persons that tends to wear his emotions on his shirt sleeve and that does not always go over so well in this culture. I am learning to be naturally polite, because I admit I am not (as any of my friends here will attest). I am polite when and if I feel like it. The Spanish language of politeness does not roll off the tip of my tongue as easily as “hey that’ll be 20 dollars of super and check the oil while you’re at it.” But politeness will get you further in Costa Rica. It will open doors that sometimes appear to be shut to gringo expats who haven’t learned the language of politeness yet. It will develop and strengthen relationships. It will make you feel better because you are making others feel better. Because in reality life is not all about us, is it? To refuse to learn to adapt to this culture of politeness is to remain in the cynical and pessimistic world where one always demands that his needs be met and to hell with anyone else. That does not go over so well down here. So take a tip from the 
For my first years in Costa Rica I was always a city dweller. Actually, for the first couple years I lived in hotels until I finally rented an apartment in Paseo Colón, a business district of San Jose. I had my 



















