Reason #226: The Sanctity of Uncertainty
Friday, October 30th, 2009
I was watching a movie last night entitled Sin Nombre. It is about a family trying to make it from somewhere (I believe) in Central America, perhaps El Salvador, to the U.S. Their lives, especially that of the teenage daughter, Sayra, become intertwined with a member of the street gang, Salvatruchas, who joins their trek while fleeing from gang members seeking revenge for his murder of the local gang leader. The movie is in Spanish. It is an excellent film, though very tough to view at times. It made me wonder why young people would get involved with gangs and turn to a life of hatred, violence and crime. The gangs are promoted as a sanctuary from the harsh realities of the lives these poor kids are growing up in. In the gang you have many brothers who will gladly kill or be killed on your behalf. There is honor amongst the gang members, at least in relation to themselves. However, I believe there is more underlying the appeal of a gang than just the feeling of certainty you experience by being part of something larger and more powerful than you feel you could ever be alone. It is the sanctity of “uncertainty” that provides the ultimate and most provocative motivation. And that is a principle that drives many human actions, be it the joining of a gang, or the taking of any major personal or business risk. Of course, the level of risk the we are willing to take depends on how great our need for “uncertainty” really is. For some, the adrenaline junkies out there, that need is much greater than it is for others. But we all have it. You often hear the statistic that one out of every two marriages ends in divorce. But why? I believe it is the uncertainty need that is underlying most divorces. As humans we tend to get to the point of being “fed up” with certainty, which we often refer to as boredom. So we decide to do something that adds a little spice, or danger, like join a gang, or have an affair. Either way, the same principle is at work. The same need is driving us, the need for uncertainty. I know I have it big time. If I look back on the course my life has taken I can see it at work at every major turning point. That big career change from being a lawyer to leaping headfirst into the entrepreneurial world. The decision to come to this country, which had loads of uncertainty involved with it. That fact, coupled with the fact that I probably have a higher need for uncertainty than the average person, has made this place so intriguing and stimulating for me. This need can drive us to take stupid and dangerous risks, with our lives and those we love, or it can spur us to tremendous bouts of personal and professional growth. I believe we need to recognize when it is working and harness it rather than allowing it to harness us. It is a need that can drive us upward to heaven, or downward to hell, depending on the decisions we allow it to provoke.
I wrote the other day in my other blog,
Just got back from spending three days in the beautiful colonial city of Granada, Nicaragua. I have visited the city many times and always enjoy my time there. This time I discovered that in addition to the rustic colonial architecture, the historical significance (Granada was founded by Francisco Hernández de Córdoba in 1524), the great food, arts and crafts and vibrant nightlife, Granada also has a spectacular array of natural wonders to offer. There are the “isletas,” which are a series of small islands (365 in all, or one for every day of the year) that were formed by the eruption of towering Vulcan Mombacho. There is Lake Nicaragua, or Cocibolca as the Indians named it, which is the largest lake in Central America. I had always been curious about the towering Mombacho that stands watch over the city like a faithful sentinel. On this trip, I decided to get up close and personal with the volcano. Mombacho is marginally active with an altitude of 1,344 meters. It is one of the 78 environmentally protected areas of Nicaragua. You can take a 4-wheel drive vehicle to the top and from there hike around the volcano’s four craters. The views offered from various lookouts around the crater trails are stunning. You can see the city of Granada, a good part of Lake Nicaragua, and in the distance, Volcanoes Masaya, Momotombo and Momotombito, as well as Lago de Managua. There are numerous varieties of forests on the slopes of the volcano, depending on the altitude. At the base is a tropical dry forest, while higher up you encounter the cloud and dwarf forests. There is a wide variety of flora and fauna some of which are endemic to the volcano itself. We did one of the canopy tours offered at Mombacho and the experience was thrilling and completely safe. Here in Costa Rica we pride ourselves on our canopy tours and I can say that the tour we did was every bit as professionally operated as the many we put our
Things are actually pretty rosey these days. I am all moved in to my new home. While I did experience a bit of “trepidation” about the move initially, now I’m really loving it. And I got orange and mango trees in my backyard! What is really great is that my office is now separate from the house, even though both are part of the same property. That really helps with the commute, and it is a much saner way of doing it than having a home office. And the sales are really coming in again! All in all, life is good. Well, you know, it ain’t perfect…never is. But I can remember a lot worse! I just wonder what is around the corner to screw it all up. Isn’t that the way it goes….that is, as soon as things appear to be sailing along smoothly, along comes one of those rogue waves called ”circumstances of life” to capsize your boat. Of course, that mode of thinking isn’t going to help much and may actually “attract” what it is that I fear (if you believe in that sort of thing). Nevertheless, I think I’ll just enjoy this smooth ride at least until the gas runs out. Tomorrow I am off to Nicaragua for another one of those infamous “border runs.” Hopefully those will be coming to an end soon, as I expect to have my residency by early next year. I guess you get the drift that I really don’t have much to write about today…..what, Costa Rica Guy is out of opinions? Well, every once and a while I do simply draw a complete blank when I stare at my computer screen trying to concoct Reason # whatever. Life in Costa Rica is good and when it is really good it is great. Right now it is great and I plan to squeeze as much enjoyment out of it as I can. After all, that’s why we are here isn’t it? To enjoy our time and the small space we are privileged to occupy. I am very happy that my space is located in Costa Rica. So to whomever or whatever is out there just waiting to invade it…..dejame en paz por favor!
I often update readers on books that I have read, or am in the process of reading. Recently I have been reading the book
I’m old enough to remember those old Timex commercials. You know the ones featuring various “torture tests” that proved that the Timex could “take a licking and keep on ticking.” I was thinking this morning that, you know, Costa Rica has a similar quality. Since I have been living here I have seen Costa Rica’s resiliency proven time and time again. First there was the aftermath of September 11, 2001, when the whole world suddenly developed a fear of travel. That greatly affected tourism in the country for a short while, but then it came roaring back. This recent economic crisis is another example. Yes the last twelve months have been difficult for all of us, but now the light is beginning to shine again. What is the reason behind Costa Rica’s durability? Well, like the incredible durable Timex watch, Costa Rica offers a great product at the right time and in the right place. The product is Costa Rica’s natural beauty and the outgoing warmth and friendliness of its people. You just can’t find the stunning views and beautiful smiles that you find here anywhere else. The timing of Costa Rica’s rise as a tourism juggernaut coincides with the rise of environmental consciousness around the world. When Al Gore sounded the global warming alarm, suddenly the idea of “going green” became the hottest fashion trend. That trend has only gained momentum and Barack Obama seems dead-set on making sure that the U.S. and the rest of the world really does “go green.” Well Costa Rica recognized the value in doing so long before Gore began to popularize the notion and now is recognized as a world leader in environmental sustainability. The world is looking to Costa Rica to continue this leadership and a vacation here is a prime way to show off one’s “green friendliness.” Finally, Costa Rica is in the right place. Its strategic location, especially for visitors from North America, make it attractive even when the wallets of would-be travelers are a little on the light side. So there you have it….my take on why Costa Rica has weathered these crises like a Timex watch. I don’t foresee anything coming around the corner that might reverse that trend. That’s why I remain bullish on Costa Rica. Costa Rica….it takes a licking but keeps on ticking!
This weekend I visited the area where the 6.2 earthquake occurred earlier this year (January 8th to be exact). Wow it seems like it was longer ago than that! I am talking about Vara Blanca, and specifically, the Peace Lodge. Other than Cinchona, which was virtually wiped off the map and still unreachable, these were the areas hardest hit by the quake. We toured the La Paz Waterfall Gardens, which has always been one of my favorite cloud forest locations in the country. The Peace Lodge (and La Paz Gardens) is another creation of Florida hotelier, Lee Banks (I recently posted about his newest hotel,
The other day I found out that one of my employees has become interested in the teachings of motivational guru, Anthony Robbins. I dusted off my “Personal Power II” tapes that I purchased back in 1995, when I was about to embark on a major career change, and presented them to him. He, in his early 30’s, asked me, puzzled, if those were actually “cassette tapes?” A lot has taken place in my life since I first listened to those tapes. They did have a profound effect on my actions over the ensuing years. And that is what Robbins is all about….motivating you to take action. But now it seems that the “something magical” that happens when we get off our duffs and take action, really might be “something scientific.” These days whole new theories about how to create the life of your dreams have cropped up that are intertwined with some pretty “weird science.” But that “weird science” consists of cutting edge theories about how the universe operates. I’m speaking of quantum physics…that all matter is made of atoms, that atoms are in essence energy and that energy is made of pure consciousness, or thought. The so-called “law of attraction” is based on the idea that our thoughts create our physical reality. Not just in how they motivate us to take action, which is where Robbins always placed his focus. No, they actually “create” our reality….in other words, we can “think” our desired reality into existence. But if that is true, then why don’t I have everything I want right now? It seems that if you take any desired state of being that is not yet physically present, you can break down the process of bringing it into existence into five components. Those are (1) thought; (2) visualization; (3) action (planning and execution); (4) time; and (5) circumstances. The first three are completely under my dominion and control. The latter two are not. But is that necessarily true? Can we influence time and circumstances? Who or what is in control of those components, or is anyone? If you take as an example, getting into great physical shape, it seems that we can greatly influence time and circumstances. The more we focus our thought, visualization and action towards the goal of physical conditioning, the more we can influence the time interval and circumstances (such as sickness and injury) that could interfere with the accomplishment of the goal. But take another, more complicated, goal, like “success in business.” It seems that the factor that is most “out of our control” are the decisions of potential customers, who have their own thoughts, visualizations and actions geared towards creating their own physical states. According to the new quantum metaphysics and the law of attraction, we may be able to create our desired physical state with thought, but what about all those other thoughts that are trying to create physical states that may be in conflict with ours? Since the physical world we observe seems to be fairly stable, there must be some thoughts that dominate others to the point that their desired state wins? And where does the role of “God’s will” come into play in all of this? Is that another overriding component that I forgot to mention above? Does God just “step aside” and allow dominant thoughts to prevail in creating the universe, or does he play a more active role? I don’t have the answers to any of this, but it is intriguing to think about it. I need the brain power of a
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Can you believe those Norwegian nut-cases? How can they award the Nobel Peace Prize to a sorry no-count good-for-nothing loser like Barack HUSSEIN Obama? I mean what has he done to deserve a prize from a cracker-jack box, much less the Nobel Prize? I’m just downright “et-up” about it! They’d just as well given the damn prize to my dog Cash….he don’t bite! And that humble and contrite speech he gave about “not deserving it” and that this was his “call to action” was completely insincere. You know in the back of his mind he was telling Rush Limbaugh to “roll that and smoke it….fat boy!” It just ain’t right. Okay, okay, give me a moment and let me remove the tongue lodged deeply in my cheek. Maybe Obama hasn’t achieved any great peace accords, gone on hunger strikes, been politically imprisoned, or the whole host of other great sacrifices and accomplishments of past winners. But he has done this….he has put the U.S. back into a position where “most” of the rest of the world at least doesn’t hate our guts! That’s kind of important seeing how we have to share space with them. Bush was able to get almost the entire world to hate the U.S. in eight years. Obama has reversed that in 8 months. Does that mean he deserves the prize? I don’t know, but it is an accomplishment. The fact that he did win it at least sends a positive signal. A signal that the world is changing its opinion about the U.S. Maybe that doesn’t matter much to Rush Limbaugh, Sean Hannity or Glenn Beck, but it should matter to anyone who would like to travel outside U.S. borders and not get treated like a door-to-door vacuum cleaner salesman. 9-11 was proof that we have made some pretty serious enemies in this world. The U.S. responses to that incident, while maybe justified, only heightened the hatred that was already fomenting. Obama has a chance to turn that around and he has made a pretty good start. Give him three more years and he might just end up deserving the prize after all. So my message to those out there suffering from OTS (Obama Trauma Syndrome) is “get a grip.” I know all this is hard to fathom, but pinch yourself….it’s not a nightmare. Obama is president and now he is a Nobel Peace Prize recipient. Face it. The world likes him….even if you don’t.


















